Tracy Myers Blog Post: Week 4 Reading- Art of Possibility
My take
away from the chapters this week- Chapter 9 Lighting a Spark- to inspire
people to get on board with your ideas you must show a certain type of passion
when meeting with them. Communicating this passion in your talking and actions
demonstrates willingness for others to want to help in any way they can.
The energy will be magnetic and almost magical. Chapter 10 Being
the Board- accepting the choices I have made effect my life. Also realizing
that life is a journey. Playing the blame game does not help you it keeps
you looking in the past. Things that took place in the past you cannot
change or have control over any more so you have to move forward with your
life. Chapter 11 Creating Frameworks for Possibilities- creating a
vision that stands around all possibilities. Chapter 12 Telling the WE
Story- This chapter was my absolute favorite from this week because it
truly takes the focus off of “I” factor. I like that the authors
centered the conversations to help us include ourselves in the problem
solving for the issues that we face instead of pointing fingers or trying to be
self centered (as we can sometimes be) by making everything all about
“me”.
It use to be people genuinely cared about other people because you were raised
that way, but as family dynamics have changed so has the cultures/values
changed... too the selfishness. This is ever presently seen in the classroom
with my students, in the office among my co-workers, staff/faculty (friends)
even within the family dynamics. Often when I reflect in my journal each
day after work I notice that my observations of the day are quite different from
my teammates. I believe what contributes to those differences in our
observations has to be from our personal values and beliefs. I look
at the "We" in and my teammate often centers all situations around
the "me" or "I" factor. I am more hopeful that situations
can be resolved by working together to reach a resolution whereas my teammate
can only see things from a pointed view.
Tracy
You are so true in your
statements about the self-centeredness of our society and how it has crept into
everything. Until we can accept the fact that we need each other to be involved
in decision making processes, our world will not change. Pointing fingers only
stirs up the pot and causes resentment and sometimes chaos. I hope that you are
able to help create that "We" spark for your teammate.